WARNING: This post isn't for children.
Refer to the previous post.
https://gangstalkedcreoleauthor.blogspot.com/2022/04/when-narcissists-rape.html?m=0
If you ever report a recent or past rape experience, the stigma & treatment that you get from a narcissistic abuser is worse than the rape experience, itself!
As I said in the previous post, I stay away from feminism. Some people falsely assume that you're a "feminist witch", if you holler RAPE, no matter how true your rape experience is. Yes. Rape IS real! Rape does happen. There is a such thing as men raping women, & people raping people, regardless of age or gender. Not every accused man is innocent. Most of them are guilty. It's crazy to think that there's no such thing as a man raping you! & male narcissistic rapists continue on to rape, torture, exploit, objectify & abuse. The actual feminist witches have caused REAL rape victims to have to suffer. "The good has to suffer for the bad.", is a phrase that power-hungry narcs LOVE to live by. They think it increases their "authority", power & rulership to punish both the just & the unjust. Remember. They're Luciferians who fantasize about elevating themselves above the REAL God!
I also hate that, any rape victimization info that you get online, is either by a feminist website pretending to be there for victims, or a non-feminist website that's going to blame the victim. It's like, you can't have it both ways. You can't find a non-feminist website that's going to sympathize with real rape victims. If you do, you have to dig deep & hard. Any of those victim blaming websites, mocking or condemning rape victims was probably written by a Narcissistic Abuser.
What inspired me to write this post & the previous post, is that 1 of my biological brothers recently tried to come back into my life. He kept laughing every day & making fun of my twin sister about the rape issue. I've heard that he said things about me, too. That's why I cut him off. He's a sociopathic, reprobate perp, as well. I don't want to go into detail. I already did a recent YouTube video about it, which caused my twin sister to go back to perping me again. During family arguments, they even use my past rape traumas as a weapon against me, to try to falsely make me out to look like a desperate whore, & they don't know what truly went down, because they weren't living in Los Angeles, & I wasn't even in contact with them.
It's narcissistic to laugh at rape victims, saying that you don't believe them. It's also selfish & narcissistic to lie about being raped. It's narcissistic to twist a TRUE rape victim's police report or story that they told, with your own false assumptions, to smear campaign them as a "whore" & to make it like the victim isn't innocent, when the victim is VERY MUCH innocent!
Society is brainwashed to stigmatize & oppress rape victims the same way they do to homeless, mentally "ill", people labeled as mentally handicapped & targeted individuals. While homosexuals get all this undeserved "praise" & "elevation" in society behind a lifestyle choice!
People say that male rape or molestation is more stigmatized than female. We females have it hard enough! Narcissists in society always say that they don't have any sympathy for a female rape victim, & they try to GUESS what happened to you, thinking like they have MORE knowledge about your rape details than you do, & they weren't even there. Only to trigger & provoke you even more.
I never saw a male, who got robbed, be blamed for his own robbery. If a man goes out to the gas station at 1:30 AM & gets robbed & shot, but survived the gunshot wound, then society feels sorry for him. They don't tell him stuff like, "Well, what were you wearing?" "You deserve to be robbed because you had no business running the streets at that time of the night." "You should've had more common sense." "That's 'cause you were flaunting off all your money!" They actually feel bad for him. If a male robbery victim put up a $50,000 GoFundMe, he would get more sympathy & donations than a female rape victim. They might donate her crumbs, like $5 & then tell her, "Hopefully you've learned your lesson, because next time, it WON'T be rape!". Yeah, emphasizing "WON'T". I've never heard of a male robbery victim be gaslit, discredited & called crazy like a female rape victim. What if they might have a small portion of men who lied about being robbed? Most victims don't lie about robbery &/or rape.
When a child comes home & tells her parents that she was sexually fondled by her teacher, or if a teen was raped & impregnated by her male gym teacher, the narcissistic parent punishes, abuses & blames the child. When I was in 3rd grade & got sexually touched by a boy in my class when the teacher was gone for a long time, "I" got a whipping! That was THE WORST (& probably LAST) belt whipping that the foster dad Al gave me. I didn't understand what I did wrong. Him & the abusive fake foster mom Ann got mad at me because I told the next morning, & not right away. Well, I didn't realize it was wrong. Al used to watch porn in front of us when we were 4 years old! I don't remember him molesting us, though.
When you're mentally disabled, & you have a narcissistic control freak fake friend who repeatedly uses & takes advantage of your money, car or other valuables or try to leech & freeload off of you, trying to fraudulently live on your Section 8 & you try to stand up to them & there's a battle & they get the upper hand over you, you get the same stigmatization, oppression & abuse from other Narcissistic Abusers, as when you're sexually raped.
When you tell a narcissistic abuser that you were raped, they tell you that you put yourself in the position & allowed yourself to be victimized, that you're NOT a victim (they stress & overemphasize the word NOT), & then they falsely accuse you of pulling the victim card being negative & full of drama, or wanting pity, sympathy & attention. They brag to your face that they DON'T feel sorry for you. & they emphasize & stress the word, "DON'T". The religious narcs use Bible scriptures to try to discourage you & turn away your faith. They falsely accuse you of seducing the rapist, when they don't know because they weren't there. They think that you CAN'T be 100% innocent, & that you have to take some accountability for "allowing" the rape. They'll falsely assume that you wanted the rapist more than he wanted you, & that you were the one who approached him & made the first move. They lie & say that you seduced him first. So degrading, when the rapist was hell-faced ugly, too old for you & not your type. Someone who you wouldn't want to make any babies with.
Narcissistic men & women have such a sexually perverted mind, even the fake Christian narcs. Sometimes, a narc would quietly separate herself from you if you confide in her to tell her that you were raped.
Narcissists call you crazy & brag & laugh about how nobody's going to believe you. They mock & make rape jokes, not caring how offended you were. They BOLDLY laugh in your face!
I remember, when I got raped by the freemason in 2012, someone from RAINN network told me, "Well, if you would've taken your (psychiatric) meds like you were supposed to, then you wouldn't have made the decision to put yourself in the position to allow yourself to get raped". At that time, the fake Hell's Way church pastor, who was a sexual predator, himself, made false smear campaigns about me being a "prostitute", & the entire fake church betrayed me. Fake pastor Eric Gullekson/Turnerville would make false rumors about me being out prostituting, when I quit going to the fake church. I was devastated by the rape by the freemason & afraid to leave the house. I was not out prostituting! He only wants to pray for the prostitutes & the pimps, & no one else. His prayers were even fake & over exaggerated. I never prostituted a day in my life, & I never got paid in exchange for sex.
In 2003 when I was raped, someone at my university (University of New Orleans) told me at the health clinic, "Well then next time, don't put yourself in those positions!"
One lady told me on the bus, "You're responsible for everyone he rapes. (Talking about the freemason from 2012, but she told me that in 2013.)"
Female narcissists, who do victim blaming, act like they're invincible, like as if a rape could NEVER happen to them, because they have enough "common sense" not to allow that. But then if it DOES happen to them, they pretend to fake cry & humble themselves, & they expect for you to be supportive & non-judgmental. Just like, they think they're invincible against ever becoming homeless. Female narcissists act like they want to worship & defend the man. Some people say that it's because she's a witch who's jealous of other females.
Rape victims need to be taken seriously & believed, just like targeted individuals. We have Jesus Christ on our side, if people don't want to believe us. But the abusive backlash & shame that we get is more traumatic than the rape, itself. The female rape victims get told that they're "crazy", & they get told that they're sick & need psych meds, while the rapist gets to live his BEST LIFE! Male robbery victims don't get told that they have a mental problem. I've heard of some men who get repeatedly robbed. Maybe I should've entitled this along the lines of, "How narcissists in society treat female rape victims vs. how they treat male robbery victims". But this post is basically a follow up to the previous one. This post wasn't meant to be sexist or offensive. I was just speaking from my personal experiences. Your viewpoint may be different. People question why women are told, "Don't be a victim." or "Don't get raped." & why society doesn't tell men, "Don't get robbed". Robbery reports are taken more seriously than rape reports. Both feminism & misogyny are narcissistic. Cops, in general, are soulless psychopaths.