Narcissistic Abuse, Bullies & Retaliation

Everyone always defends & agrees with the narcissist; & likewise, everyone always defends & agrees with the bully. 

Why is it always the VICTIM who gets punished for standing up to the bully, & then the bully is treated like the "victim", coddled & even praised/rewarded? Just BACKWARDS!

Why would a bully, who's harassing YOU, tell you to leave them alone, when you retaliate & try to defend yourself? & then they act out, leaving those in "authority" to punish the wrong person. 



Due to my sleep deprivation, I'm going to elaborate on this topic later on.