Don't throw stones at me, y'all! I don't know if this is within narcissistic families that I've seen while growing up, or what. But I noticed that when people are either dating or engaged, they're super affectionate, cozy & lovey dovey. Once they get married, they can't stand each other. You never see that (now) married couple hold hands, hug or kiss. They hate each other so much that they don't even sleep in the same room anymore. All they do is argue, fuss & fight for years! They end up hating each other & being the WORST of enemies! But you wonder how they some kind of way have 10 children together.
Just some random thoughts about something I observed.