Hello, everyone. It's been a while. As usual, pardon me because I'm sleep deprived, due to the gang stalking & covert harassment. I also have an EXCRUCIATING headache (all day long). I started a new job this week. I was supposed to be at work today. I couldn't even do a full day yesterday. The gang stalking tactic of sleep depriving someone is senseless & unnecessary. Why can't they just leave us alone?
But anyway, I'm not sure if anyone has touched on this topic. I'm going to share my own personal experiences & then afterwards, Google & YouTube search "Pregnant Narcissist", & then post any possible informative links here.
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When a narcissist becomes pregnant, she becomes even more evil. Can you relate to dealing with such an experience? The pregnant narcissistic abuser exploits her pregnancy as an opportunity to destroy you even more. She'll do stuff like antagonize, provoke & vex you to torture, & she'll use that as an advantage because she knows you can't hit her or put your hands on her. But when she's not pregnant, she knows she could get harmed, doing such evil towards a person, so she treads lightly. Me personally, I try to get the hell FAR away from her before things could get to that point. I'm disabled & can't fight, anyway!
Narcs (pregnant or not), try to provoke you to anger on purpose, just so they can get society to pretend to justify that you're "crazy".
Another tactic that I heard was (I've heard it happen SO MUCH in the American Black community - I don't know about other cultures.) I've heard about how a certain narcissistic Black female would get with a guy, get pregnant by him ON PURPOSE, just to slap child support on him & get money out of him, even after the child is over 21. & the man would be suffering. To me, that's another type of witchcraft & control.
Then, she goes on to block & prevent him from seeing the baby, while simultaneously lying to people, saying that he's a deadbeat dad who never wanted to see his child. She would take her anger out on the child & act abusive, especially if the child looks just like the father. She'll keep throwing it in the child's face, saying, "You look JUST like your no-good daddy!" She'll even physically abuse & beat on the child for stupid stuff that doesn't even deserve punishment. Then, the child (especially a boy) has an absent father. (I see people on Twitter who talk about narcissistic abuse & parental alienation.) He sometimes would act out & misbehave. Probably end up on drugs, join a gang, get into all kinds of trouble or just be in & out of jail or prison.
But let me say this. There's also that side of the coin where narcissistic men treat a woman like a sex object, demand sex, refuse to accept NO as an answer etc. He would try to get you pregnant ON PURPOSE, & then run off. Even go as far as to lie & say that you cheated on him & got pregnant by another guy. Leaving you devastated. If he's forced to be in the child's life, then he'll be abusive to both you & the child.
See? He'll try to juice your head up & act like he wants you so badly. After her got what he wanted, he would start treating you like leprosy & then go behind your back, lying & saying that you're a whore who's pregnant by another dude.
Another tactic is that a narcissistic woman would use her pregnancy as justification to use you for favors & treat you like an errand slave. She'll have you fix her water to drink or go to the extreme, such as forcing you to clean up her morning sickness vomit. She'll issue out commands in a VERY demanding way. Acting like she's your Army drill sergeant. If you refuse, expect a hurricane, a tornado, a monsoon & a blizzard (all at once). & then she would punish you with the silent treatment for years.
After the baby is born, she'll treat you like you have leprosy (if you're related to her), while IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE, allowing complete strangers to spend time with & hold her baby. She'll also do stuff like, falsely accusing you of neglecting, beating/abusing or even molesting her child. Even trying to kill her child (but then, she would be the type to be part of a Masonic cult, trying to ritually sacrifice that baby & then blame use scapegoating & projection. She'll make it YOUR responsibility to babysit for free. She'll even force you to change the baby's diaper or give the baby a bath after she falsely accused you of being a pedophile 5 minutes ago during an argument. Just diabolical!
Well, let me see what interesting links I could find.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/love-in-the-age-narcissism/202110/narcissistic-women-may-use-pregnancy-power
https://psychcentral.com/pro/exhausted-woman/2016/10/the-scariest-of-personalities-narcissistic-mothers#1
https://www.quora.com/How-does-a-female-covert-narcissist-handle-pregnancy
https://themindsjournal.com/narcissistic-women-use-pregnancy/
https://thenarcissistinyourlife.com/narcissistic-women-playing-the-pregnancy-card/
https://wasitme.blog/2019/02/07/narcissist-and-pregnancy-having-children/
https://www.onemomsbattle.com/blog/im-going-to-be-a-mom
Here are some YouTube videos.
https://youtu.be/me1g-jVdRZI
https://youtu.be/WqNecpPbE2w
https://youtu.be/dEXycjTtn8g
https://youtu.be/CdcaWBYxUeo
https://youtu.be/tXP94jIYQFE
I also wanted to add that, in the TI community, victims have spoken out about these types of women being a "honey pot/honey trap".