Whenever they whisper in front of you, they get mad & force you to go into another room. Ghetto narcissistic abusers try to tell you to stay out of grown folks' business. Sometimes, they even gossip out loud in front of you, bragging about all the illegal crimes that they've committed. Even if they perceive that you're listening in on their conversation or "looking all in their mouth", they want to try to inflict HARSH punishment on you.
But when you whisper to someone else in front of them, they force you to publicly say out loud, what you were whispering to the other person. They want to try to humiliate you. The fake "nice" ones try to be messy about it. They laugh & think it's funny to try to poke, prod, push, guilt & manipulate you into telling them the secret that you were trying to whisper to the other person. Only so they can make a fool out of you & try to set you up to get into even more trouble by a narcissistic authority figure.
You're not allowed any secrets or privacy, but they are. They ask you nosy questions, yet if you ask them the same question, they lose their temper on you or ignore you & refuse to answer. How come they can DEMAND an answer for how much money I have in the bank, but if I ask them the same thing, they feel like it's an inappropriate question? They act like they OWN all of my personal business & my life, but they can keep secrets away from me. Even concerning my own life & personal business.
That goes to how they act like they have a right to dictate that everyone else has rights except for me.